what is your eye color. what is your favorite color. what is the color that appears most frequently in your wardrobe. what color is your favorite blanket. what color is your water bottle.
I cried. I threw up. I shook. I climbed the walls. I cried some more. I tore my hair out. I saw the light. I was on the brink of death. And I cried even more. Charlotte and George were everything and then some. Like my brain chemistry has been permanently altered. I will never be the same. Every time I think about them I’m launched into a brand new mental breakdown. I don’t know how I will recover from this.
—don’t mix your drugs if you decide to experiment, taking uppers and downers together can be incredibly dangerous (this includes alcohol)
—your partner is absolutely not “too big for a condom,” if a standard size won’t fit comfortably there are XL condoms
—the person sending you hate online is not worth your time, much less your peace or your life. Block freely and unplug sometimes
—your hobbies should not become hustles unless you want to start hating your hobbies. Give yourself permission to do unproductive, unstructured shit for fun
—if you decide you want a tattoo, look at designs and then wait six months. If you still want it, get it, but that six months will let you find a good and reputable artist and save up, along with being 100% sure this is something you want on your body for the next sixty years
—some days are going to genuinely suck ass for reasons entirely beyond your control and what I have learned in the fifteen years since I’ve been a teenager is that the best thing you can do for your mental health on those days is to take a deep breath, acknowledge your day sucks, and say “I’m going to do what I need to do so tomorrow doesn’t also suck, but I’m not going to try to pretend everything is okay.” It is so, so much better than fake positivity.
—I graduated high school in 2006. I don’t remember a single dumbass thing anyone did, but I remember the acts of cruelty and the acts of kindness. Don’t worry about the toilet paper that was on your shoe or accidentally wearing your shirt backward because in the short term nobody will remember like a week from now and in the long term not only will nobody remember, nobody will give a shit. Don’t let these things steal your peace.
TV could be so good again if the writers got what they need to work well and we could have long seasons back instead of the awful 10 fast episodes that take 5 years to film that we get now
being an adult is just saying to yourself “this is the weekend i’ll clean my [x]” and then proceeding to not do that because it’s the weekend and you deserve to relax, goddamnit
why does this have 85K notes
because we reblogged it instead of cleaning our [x]
Let me get this straight. Almost everyone here hates the jury. Has for years. You can see it here every year. People want only the public votes to count.
So people are not just upset bc Loreen won. They are upset because without the jury Käärijä would have won. He got so many votes from the public, so much more than Loreen, although she did good too in public votes.
People here always hated the jury. So yes, we are going to be upset when we can CLEARLY see that if it was only up to the public, Käärijä would have won by far.
So no, we are not just being sore losers. We just hate the jury. So this win feels like something the public didn’t want, so it is not surprising that many are upset that Käärijä didn’t win. The public wanted him to win. That is clear by looking at the votes.
